We're Renting out our house for the World Equestrian Games

The 2010 FEI Alltech World Equestrian Games are coming to Lexington Kentucky and we're going to try to rent out our house for the duration. If you want more info check it out here: http://www.robertglennsmith.com/2010-world-equestrian-games-rental

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Life sucks...

Friend just found out mom has ovarian cancer…dad has heart disease and was just released after another heart attack…God, life sucks! Help.

WEBSITE IS UP!

www.RobertGlennSmith.com is now official.

Well it could be interpretted as a serious pride problem, but in reality it just helps me have an easy place to send people in order to communicate with them.

I may still post on here, but everything I post here will be posted at www.RobertGlennSmith.com. I'm able to be a little more creative with some things there and I've learned a lot already going through this process.

So, feel free to check it out and giv eme plenty of feedback.

And the moral of the story is...

I just had the smackdown laid on me for using the phrase, "And the moral of the story is..." Now I can assume the dude is way better at English than I, or he doesn't know what in the heck he is talking about. Typically, when it comes to English, I think everybody is smarter than I. Regardless of whether or not I was wrong the issue is that I don't even know this dude. The first time we even exchanged pleasantries was after he slammed me, and called me Aesop. I didn't like it, even if he was right. The thing I hated the most was not that he made the criticism in front of people, but that he left me without the knowledge that I needed to not make the same mistake again.

I have a pet peave when it comes to leaders. If you see a problem, then refrain from making the criticism if you don't have a solution. There is a difference between offering criticism and offering a solution. We tempt people to be prideful when all we do is mention where they fall short. We inspire them to be different if we show them a way out.

So, now I'm pissed off because I don't know what I should have said. Now I'm going to go find this guy and figure out what in the heck I should have said, and then let him know the next time he offers criticism in a public and even humiliating fashion he better have a solution. Otherwise, he comes out looking like the jerk instead of the wise man.

Responding to God

Responding to God: (via petehise.com)"

I listen to leaders all the time who talk about substantial experiences with God that seem to fade away with time. But sometimes I come across leaders who put teeth into their experiences with Him, and it lights a fire under them that never fades..a fire that just gets stronger, more passionate and more fulfilling over time. I believe God is looking for people who take seriously their encounters with Him, responding practically and quickly…with faith.

The longer I lead, the more baffling it is to me why some people don’t respond to a prompting from God Himself. I’m talking about legitimate God-inspired whispers that line up with scripture and are processed in community. Why does one person respond to God and another put it off so long the urge to respond is almost indiscernible?

Let me ask you…if you had an encounter with the Holy God and you really believed He met with you and told you some things, why wouldn’t you sort them out with Him? Why wouldn’t you take action? If Warren Buffett called you today with investment advice, don’t you think you’d be inclined to take it? This guy’s the expert. You’d be a fool to ignore him. So why do we treat what the God of the Universe has to say so lightly? He is the author and finisher of our faith…the expert of all experts. And His plans for us are always good.

Why not take Him up on what He’s been whispering to you these days?

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How Pastors (And Everyone) Can Build A Marriage That Will Last – Part Two

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How Pastors (And Everyone) Can Build A Marriage That Will Last – Part Two: "

#3 – Show Up

Here’s the deal about the house next door…the dudes working on it show up EVERY DAY…EARLY…and stay late.

Hey church leader…in order to build a home you need to BE AT HOME…period!

I know WAY too many pastors who let the expectations and demands of needy, clingy church people (notice I didn’t say Christians) DRIVE them to a place of insanity and burnout…and then those same church people will stand around his coffin and talk about how he should have taken better care of himself.

Too many pastors are at other kids baseball games and missing their own kids baseball game…this HAS TO STOP!

Guys…we’ve GOT to spend time at home…and NOT apologize for it. We’ve GOT to be with our spouse in order to work on the marriage.

My recommendation…ask her questions like…

• What time would you like me home every night?


• How many nights a week would you like for us to have dinner as a family?


• How can I serve you and the kids once I get home?


• What can I do for you when the kids go to bed to make you feel special? (BTW…she’s not going to say, “channel surf!”)

Now…before I move on…let me deal with the nasty reason many church leaders don’t want to go home…

Because at home they are NOT “a rock star!”

You see, at church, at ANY size church, the pastor is “the man.” He’s respected and admired and often complimented by others. In many cases this can produce a false perception of power and control…and the pastor begins to think that everyone who sees him needs to bow and pay homage. (Which is something that needs to be repented of…they don’t serve us…we serve one another and we all serve Christ!)

Then he goes home…and his wife and kids just aren’t impressed with him. (Dude, your wife has seen you naked…there is ABSOLUTELY nothing about you that impresses her!) And…some guys can’t handle being the servant at home…they have to be “the man,” and that NEVER contributes to a healthy marriage.

One of the BEST things we can BEG God for is for Him to allow us to see ourselves through His eyes…which will not usher in feelings of pride but rather humility and gratitude!

The other day I spent hours in a meeting talking about campuses, budgets, traveling…all kinds of HUGE decisions that needed making. Then I left church and went home…where in less than five minutes I was wiping Charisse’s butt because she had just dropped a bomb! God uses things like this at times to remind me, “At the end of the day…all you are is a servant…and don’t ever forget it!”

Guys…guess what…we’ve got to see “butt wiping” as just as important as budgeting! We’ve got to see setting the table as just as important as setting up a service. We’ve got to see washing dishes as just as important as watching sermons on youtube! We’ve GOT TO BE THERE for our wife and kids…

If we’re not there for our family…satan will be…don’t let him lead what God has give you responsibility for!

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Organized Religion’s ‘Management Problem’

Powered by    * Please note, the sender's email address has not been verified.       While I disagree with some statements, the overall principles and evaluations are very candid and worth consideration. From my favorite Newspaper a blog on Church Management.             Click the following to access the sent link:       Organized Religion’s ‘Management Problem’*                 Get your EMAIL THIS Browser Button and use it to email content from any Web site. Click here for more information.   *This article can also be accessed if you copy and paste the entire address below into your web browser. http://blogs.wsj.com/management/2009/08/21/organized-religions-management-problem